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On learning that my why is systemic — and why that’s both harder and easier than I expected After everything I laid out in the last post I expected to be confident in my decision. I thought that naming my…

On the impossible math of modern motherhood — and why I’m not willing to do it In the previous post, I shared my Big Why, my answer to the question “why don’t you want to have children?” I don’t want…

On Releasing the Pressure to Justify Yourself — and Finding the Truth That Grounds You Instead For a long time, I put a lot of pressure on myself to find my “Big Why.” Because here’s the thing about being a…

I love it when my close friends share that they’re expecting. It’s exciting news that should be met with celebration and genuine happiness. And more often than not, that news comes from friends who have long expressed a deep desire…

For the record, even as I write this, I still struggle to say out loud that I don’t want to have children, or don’t want to be a parent, or I’ve decided not to have children. Each of those statements…